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Speak no evil
October 3, 2006
I have always believed that honesty is the best policy. But I have also learned along the way that some things are better left unsaid. If it would only bring pain, hurt, anger and turmoil, it is better left unspoken. But where do we draw the line? When your intention is good? But there's a saying : the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Who are we to judge as to what is good or bad for a person? Do we keep them in blissful ignorance or do we turn their world upside down in the name of honesty?
Inner Conflict
October 2, 2006
i love you not because of but in spite of. I love you unconditionally but I am not blind to your faults. I love you, yes, but that does not mean I agree with everything you say and do. You already have my heart but unfortunately (for you), I do have a brain as well. So when the brain and heart disagree, who wins? Let me be more specific : when what you feel does not coincide with what logic dictates, who do you follow? Thought vs Emotion —- an age old debate. Let me put it in a different perspective : do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Muddling Through
September 27, 2006
The hardest question a person could ask me right now is "how are you?". How am I? I don't even know myself. I could also be so trivial say I'm OK but I'm not. But I am not also a total wreck (though sometimes it feels as if I am — inwardly that is). They best vague answer I could give is that I am coping. Coping with the storm of emotions raging inside me. Coping with all the issues that keeps cropping up left and right. Coping with the people I have to "handle" (but how do you handle oneself?). It's a good thing I've learned how to compartmentalize my emotions or everything would be a total chaos. But truth be said, I deliberately go way off tangent once in a while just to keep myself sane. =oP
Hairy Issues
September 25, 2006They say when a girl/woman has a problem, the first thing she tinkers about is her hair. She has it cut, permed, rebonded, relaxed, etc. I've had 2 haircuts in a span of a week. What does that say about me? What if I told you that I also plan to have my hair colored and have it treated with hot oil? I also want to have a full body massage and a facial. I want to undergo all these girly pampering treatments, but I can't. Not because of anything but because I don't have the time. Time is a rare commodity for me nowadays. I have a lot of more important things to do with my time. Maybe when the "issues" die down or gets settled, I'll be able to. Yeah right, keep on dreaming.
Life in Question
September 20, 2006
Why are our lives so important? That's not a rhetorical question. What is the significance of the lives that we live? If going to heaven is the ultimate destination, why are we so hell-bent (pun intended) on staying here on earth? Why not die young and blameless so that we are assured of going to paradise? Before you get any ideas, let me categorically state that I don't have any suicidal (nor homicidal) tendencies. But why do we have to go through all these things when it is all for naught? Money, prestige, power, knowledge, beauty —– all these and more, we cannot bring to the afterlife. Why do we consider them of utmost importance? In the overall grand scheme, what is the purpose of living our lives here on earth?