We all make mistakes

October 24, 2006

When I see a friend committing a mistake or is in the process of ruining his life, I feel compelled to stop him. I need to talk to him to show him the error of his ways. I lay it out all on the line. I show him the bigger picture. I give him a different perspective of things. I show him the (would be) repercussions of his actions. I give a different perspective of the matter. I do my best to convince or persuade him to stop. But ultimately, it is HIS decision to make. I cannot force him to do something he doesn't like. We all make mistakes. And sometimes, we have to commit our OWN mistakes to learn, to grow, to prosper. Though, it breaks my heart to see him destroying his life, I cannot support what he is doing. He will always be my friend, but I cannot condone what he is doing.

But in the end, after the storm has passed, I will be there for him (no questions asked). Not to tell him I told you so but help him pick up the pieces.